The art of rejection?

well its not actually the art of rejection my dear readers, its actually the art of knowing you are being rejected.. and how do i know ? , well sadly , from experience; the best teacher of all..

well the kind of rejection that i'm writing about is the love rejection, yeah scary huh? , well, may as well get used to it when committing in a heterosexual or monosexual relationship.

1. well firstly , when we like a person , we tend to do something to please him, or her. anything, by saying or by doing something good. Well, the anticipated reaction should be , the person on the receiving end creates a courageous space that encourage you to do more. On the other hand, if he or she gives you a cold shoulder for everything you did, more over scold you for doing things that would make him or her feel obliged to appreciate you, that is a clear sign of rejection!!!

2. Well this is an easy one, when dozens of calls and messages you made were unanswered and un replied

3. he or she cant stand the sight of you, always avoiding your presence , ( well in my case , i tend to avoid people when i'm having a problem with them not because rejections or anything)

4. They can go on for weeks without bothering to text you .

Simple life, thats all

haish.. i watched this one episode of majalah 3, about the story of this one felda settlement that got its name 'Temu Jodoh' because of this mass wedding held there about 30 years or so. An old man that got married through this program(the mass wedding) tells a story of how and his wife got married to each other.The guy met his wife at a kenduri, and they didn't even know each other before that , the guy smiled at the girl , and the girl smiled back ,as easy as that, pure feeling. The guy met her parent and then they got engaged for a week , and after 30 years, still married to each other. Damn!!(not that i'm angry or anything), when it comes to love , older people always had it easy. We younger generations have many advantages, we have technologies , we have a wider view of the world , we live in a very advanced world now, in which we can be proud of, but to tell you the truth, born 10 years ago or 30 years ago, i'd still want a simple kampong life. Where everything is so simple. Living in city , there are too many demands..its always hectic and stressful , even before you arrive at your work place, the first thing you need to face is the traffic jam...every single day. Something as simple going to work can be so stressful and risky(accident and everything). Not to mention complicated things like being in a relationship, marriage and all.. There are too many variable , too many unseen factors that may tamper with your struggle to find the perfect woman or man. Things like the internet , phone, social media network(i'm not sure if i got this right) like facebook ,which sometimes may have proven useful but may also become one of the factors that complicate things. Not only that, women in malaysia also have become more and more complex. They want to wear differently , they want branded things ..Too many expectations

the beauty and the fugly

sterotaip masyarakat

perbezaan orang cantik dan huduh...

bile kite nampak orang cantik yang senyap, muke muram , macam banyak masalah

kite cakap " ish, kenape ngan budak nie, kesian die muram, mesti ade banyak masalah die.

tapi bile kite nampak orang huduh yang senyap, muke muram , macam banyak masalah

kite cakap " huh !! muke dah la buruk , pastue tak reti nak senyum plak tue. mesti banyak orang benci nie"

bile kite nampak orang cantik yang suka main dengan kucing, belai kucing,

kite cakap " alahai , sweetnye die, penyayang sungguh orangnye...sejuk perut emak lahirkan.

tapi bile kite nampak orang huduh yang suke main ngan kucing , belai kucing,

kite cakap " huh!! muke dah la buruk , bersahabat plak ngan binatang, bajet sweet la tu, aku shoot muke ko kang"

bile kite nampak orang cantik yang wat salah contohnye kantoi mencurik ke

kite cakap " kesiannye , mesti die terdesak kan, takkan la muke baik camtue sengaja nak buat jahat..

tapi bile kite nampak huduh yang wat salah contohnye kantoi mencurik ke,

kite cakap, " huh , tengok muke pun aku dah tau penyangak, masukkan je penjara , orang macam nie memang tak layak duduk ngan manusia".

kelakar memang kelakar...tapi macam mane kalo jadi kat diri sendiri? its always funny when it happens to somebody else..

the start of a new beginning

finally got the courage to write something in my blog, after three years. just need something to channel all this pent up anger i 've been keeping ..or to just share something